UncleNo.1, I am sure everyone understands how frustrating solving a problem can be.
When users posts about troubles on here, those members that step in to help take those problems on as if they are their own.
The best way to receive help is to allow those helping you to believe that this is a team effort.
Not a master holding a whip.
Try using encouragement instead of anger. Try uplifting others instead of trying to beat them down. If the thread smells bad, helpful members simply won't want to enter it.
This is a community forum and no one here is obligated to set personal time aside to focus on your problems. Appreciation will get a long a way. A lack of it will get you nowhere.

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