Ok so I am running into an inconsistency again... something that executed once, but after that, never again.
I want to set up a veracrypt encrypted shared data drive between my linux and windows.
On windows, I installed veracrypt and followed the auto-mount instructions. All works.
On Linux, veracrypt "hangs" when I try to auto-mount devices... so that was not an option. I then found the following instructions to use crypttab and modify fstab here: Automount VeraCrypt with Crypttab | Delightly Linux
That actually worked fine... once... and after rebooting a second time... now it does not mount anything, without me having changed anything to the system. What am I missing?
EDIT
I noted I changed one thing vs the instructions and that is that I chose to mount the drive in ~/NAME, so the home of the user.
I reverted back to /media/NAME, and now it works again.
But I see for example filen.io mounting their network drive in home... so what am I doing wrong with the reference to ~/NAME that it only worked once?