I have only returned provisionally, for the reasons of friendship. Having said that, I have recently become aware of the situation with a member here. I too have had problems with said member, and it involved falling out of friendship over it.
I have done some reading, and I can see where the problem is. The issue is perspective and understanding, and in this case, a lack of both.
While it is my personal opinion, that I too prefer perfectly rounded edges on Windows, I however am not arrogant, nor presumptuous, to believe that everybody else should, just because I do.
Some people prefer the retro pixilated look of text fonts. And the OP, probably prefers the retro pixilated rounded look of Window borders, that is their choice, and not up to us to decide weather that is right or wrong.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We all see beauty differently from each other. Its not our job to put a persons preference down, because its in our personal opinion that its bad. Everybody has their own preference, and sees beauty in it.
If a man fell in love with a woman, and he said that she was the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, would you tell that man that she's ugly? No! Why? Cause its disrespectful and rude, and absolutely not necessary.
I might be wrong here, but I think tech support has overwhelmed said member as it did me, when I once flew the tech support flag. Its a tough job, its not easy, and eventually, it wears you down, and you begin saying some things you shouldn't.
I had to make the conscious decision to leave tech support to maintain my sanity. I hope that said member can find peace wherever they go, and find happiness and enlightenment as well.
And one last thing I will mention. We are going through a seriously rough time right now. I think our globes current situation is also getting to a lot of us. Sometimes its easy to lose site of the important things.